Poem why is love so hard

Relax : I had suffered from this pain, and now I'm doing just fine. Don't lose yourself over a guy. He doesn't deserve you. Just remember that. This reminded me of my high school love, my very first love. It took me a long time before I could get over him, but I still can't forget him!

We were in love with each other for so long, but in the middle she left and got married. But after few years she came back with a son and said, "I want you and I'm divorced.

We were happy, but after a year she stopped caring me and made me feel unsafe and fought with me. After many fights I still loved. In fact, I increased loving her more. But she couldn't care. And she relocated her work in Singapore. I see many changes in her, but I still care and love her. But one day she said, "I'm bored to chat with you every day. In just 2 months she got another guy. I just wonder why she doesn't even think of our 11 years of love.

She didn't even explain and just left me like she did first time. In this 11 years I never married and never had another girl. I just wait for her. If that's what you think is the right thing to do then you can wait, but if there's a good chance or perfect time for you to do something about the relationship then do it. Good luck. Don't do it when everything is too late. I like this poem so much. I'm in my 2nd year high school.

I know I'm young, but I fell in love for a transferee in our school. The first time I saw him I thought I wouldn't even try to talk to that person because he looks weird, yet here I am wanting to hug him again, wanting to talk to him again. He said he loved me, and I believed it. He never even did anything for me. No efforts. All nothing. He keeps going close to my friend and he is so sweet to her. And then I knew he just used me.

It hurts, yeah. I wanted to give up? Of course! But I couldn't. I always felt like if I let go of him someone is gonna take my place. Until now I'm still in love with him, so please send me your good lucks!

You hang in there, sweetheart. You are young, smart, and have the whole wide world ahead of you. There are going to be so many fellas in and out of your life as you get older.

Since this was your very first, you will never forget him. However, it will not hurt like it does now. You hold that beautiful chin up and do amazing in school. Go off to college, have a ball and make a big wig outta yourself.

Then come back to one of your reunions and be just as proud. There are so many fellas out in this world, sweetheart Hang in there.

Sending you hugs, good luck and healing prayers. I didn't know this feeling at first, but now I know the feeling and I'm going through it. I was in love with this guy, I gave this guy all I have to prove myself to him but all he did was to pretend to love while he doesn't.

It so sad to love while not knowing that you are loved in return. I tried so hard to prove my love to a guy.

I am 17 still in high school, I've already been through some tough boy trouble I shouldn't have gone through yet. High school is horrible people say such rude things makes me wonder who raised them.

Anyways, there was this boy he is a grade older than me and I've heard vague stories about him but they didn't bother me. We talked to each other for about two months than we started dating. We dated for about a year on and off. He was embarrassed of me because of the false stories everyone has heard about me. He would always be worried I was cheating on him when I gave him my all and was so committed to him I would never do such a thing.

In the first 3 moths of us, he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend that was the worst thing ever. So now we are over and within 2 days he's with someone else, this is so painful I love him so much more than he will ever come to know I can't get over the thought of someone else holding my baby boy.

If your man can make you feel like that than your man isn't worth the time. If he ever calls you anything disrespectful you gotta make sure you tell him how you feel ,If he doesn't appreciate you then find someone who will. There's nothing worse than being hurt by the one you love and by staying with him you're just putting yourself in the position to get hurt over and over again and once your a victim in the system it's hard to get out.

My advice to you would be to cut him off and to find someone who might actually respect you not only as a woman but also as a human being. So I'm only 15 and people may say I'm to young to love. But there was this guy earlier this year and we dated, I lived with him for 4 months, my so called best friend told him stupid stuff him and I was going through a rough time as it was I done everything for this boy that I possibly could and he done the same for me but my so called best friend took him from me.

I'm so heart broken and can't move on and don't know what to do. I'm lost in this boy and can't get away. I have a boyfriend it's been 5 years now.

We have 2 kids I love him with my heart but he doesn't see that. I've been trying to show him how special he is but still he doesn't see that. He's accusing me of somethings, disrespecting me telling me things I don't like, he doesn't even support me with many things, if I ask money for something he will tell me face to face that he won't give me his money. If we are happy after 2 days he will be unhappy with no reason but fighting me I don't know what to do.

I need advice. I have a boyfriend, he is also my classmate, we are so close and love each other. We told and shared everything. He gives up on his score on school, he almost gives up on me, he gives up on everything. Everytime he fell down, I've tried to comfort and cheer him up, but he always ignore me and asks me to go.

And now, I have one question on my mind. Does he realize that he still has me even if in his darkest hours?

There is guy I dated earlier this year, he told me he had a girlfriend but he is looking for a girl who is really committed into a serious relationship I fall for that, now he no longer bothers to call or text me to say "hi! Trust me Palesa, there's no reason anyone should waste their time waiting for the unforeseen when they can go out, and make their own destiny.

Don't wait for something you don't know is real. You can continue to love him and keep hope but always remember that even if he does come back, he left in the first place, don't hold it against him just remember it for future reference. I'm not heart broken I'm very bothered he asked for my heart to let go I'm happy I didn't. The love I have can't let go. I love hard I want him to understand I need a man not a child. No girls in the picture, me as a wife, mother, best friend etc. It was all a lie.

I love a girl. She lives in my locality. But she loves another guy. When I love her I don't know about it. I do everything for her. But she doesn't feel my emotions. She just neglected me. I can't sleep at night because I used to think about her. I cry alone but there was no one to hear it. Her hate push me inside the death. I hope one day she'll understand when I'll be no more. Because I love her so much. That they will realize what they are doing will only wreck the relationship beyond repair.

Maybe the problem is that we except the love to be magical before we become magicians. We grew up reading tales like Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty etc, which lead us to believe that the path of love is a bed of roses, without the thorns. Or blame it on the overdose of the too-good-to-be-true love stories we encounter in films and read in novels.

Happily ever after is a myth. And Happily Married is the biggest oxymoron ever. Reality is rough. Honestly, I love the way you write your blog. Thanks for leaving us a comment, Ann. And I feel you on the love you have for your mom. I feel the same way. This is so me. She is taken at the moment and i already gave it a shot and kinda got kindly denied… Good game well played… Moving on!

Hi Marc, your Angel is the luckiest girl in the whole world. What a beautifully sincere sentiment to share, not only with her, but with us. God bless you both. May you both grow old together and be, each to each other, forever. I have tried it and I can just express the memories of meetings we held on. That flash back. Marc I really appreciate the sincerity and depth to this article. My husband and I have been married for almost 25 years. For 25 years I have tried to tell him how much he means to me but have failed at every attempt.

The best I have been able to do is to say that he is everything to me. Sometimes we can carry guilt about not being able to verbalize how special someone is to us, but your article has put this into perfect perspective. Thank you for sharing such a raw writing with all of us. Nice one, Marc. I appreciate your articles every time I read them.

I feel like you are talking to me directly in this one. It can only be felt…through small and simple things with no show off. Anything lesser than this is just nothing over a period of time…. It just is. I have gathered so much insight about myself as a female about what Love is about. I treasure looking forward to hearing from you about your life and how you and Angel have accomplished so much over the years in your relationship.

Please keep these wonderful emails coming…. Hi marc Live your words … I love to write and I think I transmit my thoughts on paper quite well. I think you captivated it correctly in the way you feel difficulty through your wording. We all have love poems to write to somebody but I think the best Thing we can do is show words through feelings and our actions to me it counts more than a love poem..

I have enjoyed reading yours and Angels blog. I have even turned it on to several people I have met over time. I have never commented before so forgive me for writing my first post without fully agreeing. Yes, true love is hard to express in writing. This is why actions need to express the love we feel for one another. Soul mates will notice though if they are in tune with each other.

Silly notes or poems back and forth reveal the action of an attempt. A silly rhyme or a childish poem is a partial expression. But that is it! That is the point. I write it to the best of my ability and I am vulnerable to what she may think or say. I do not feel inadequate nor is it forced glam. It just comes from the heart. If she loves me then she will see past the words, the lack of the overall feeling of love it is suppose to express, and she will see that my heart is trying to put in words something that is indescribable.

She will appreciate it for that and just love me back more. Every woman he dated he treated the same and said the same words to. I am a pretty faithful reader, and this post prompted me halfway through to back up and read it aloud to my husband. Like the cliche says: actions speak louder than words.

Thanks for sharing your story and the larger epiphany you realized. Keep on inspiring us! Thank you so much for your regular emails. In my opinion, I think my experience is a bit different—I have written so many things about my girl. And on her birthday I wrote her a handwritten poem, but I still love her so much but still I can express that through writing. I guess we are all a little different.

Thank you, Marc and Angel. Good work, Marc. May God richly bless you and your family. This message has really changed my perception about love. So true. How can we use simple words and thoughts we have used before for ordinary circumstances when this instance is so different? There simply are no words. While we think this is about our inability to expresser love for another, maybe it is really about accepting the fact that THAT person also feels the same about US!

If we can only accept that WE are worthy of another imperfect person loving us despite our imperfections and THAT is where the real beauty is, we will stop trying to evaluate, quantify and qualify our love for another. Good morning! Thank you for this heaven-sent post.

Today is my husband and my 41st year anniversary! My husband works for a winery and is extremely busy with the harvest. So we to keep today simple and not give cards gifts or flowers on this day but have a simple dinner together and remember how much our love has grown. And we will take a trip together after this season. We both feel that this is true love and respect.

Your post was a great affirmation of how we create our anniversary to fit our life. Thank you. What a great life story, Marc!

I think we have all had a time in our lives when we have felt this way about a person, whether is be a spouse or some other loved one in our lives. I am one of the luckiest guys alive to be with my soul mate of 30 years of marriage but not without some difficult times. She makes me a better man and for that I thank her. I think in most relationships communication is key but not a strong point for a lot of guys and certainly not one of my strengths but somehow even with out putting into words or down on paper she knows how I feel.

She is the best thing that could of happen to me. Thanks so much for the article today. It makes me remember each day why I call her my wife! Thanks, Brad. This was the most meaningful explanation of what true love really is.